Assalammualaikum
Aku menyedari tiada manusia yang sempurna, hanya ada manusia yang merasa sempurna dan ingin terlihat sempurna. Ungkapan ini begitu bermakna untuk menyedarkan ak tentang kekurangan diri. Kelebihan dan kekurangan merupakan dua sisi dalam fitrah kemanusiaan yang saling melengkapi.
Tpi, seringkali kita tidak dapat menerima kekurangan diri sendiri dan tidak mau memahami kekurangan orang lain. Kekurangan lebih sering dianggap dengan perasaan dan pikiran negatif, sehingga banyak orang yang membenci kekurangan diri dan menganggap kesempurnaan sebagai faktor mutlak untuk mencapai kebahagiaan?????
Menerima kekurangan, memang tidak mudah. BUt, proses belajar itu x boleh berhenti sebab tanpa belajar, kita x tahu dan x mampu melakukan, serta mencapai sesuatu. Belajar merupakan proses berupaya 4 dapat memahami dan menerima, termasuk belajar menerima kekurangan diri. so,cranya???? ak pon sedang belajar.
tpi.....cner yang x mahu menerima kesalahan cmni...hem....ak pon kene blaja cra nak hadle orng cmni...hhahahahh
Hem...Pada Pendapat ak...kelebihan adlah perkara ynag akan mengisi kekeurangan....Bermusahabah dri...Melihat orng ynag lebih bwah dari kita....Bersyukur atas keadaan yang kita terima merupakan langkah utama untuk belajar menerima diri .
........Kain Putih...........
menerima dan ingin diterima.......
Khamis, 25 November 2010
Selasa, 23 November 2010
Friends???????????
A friend isn't someone that we just put a name to a face and know a few details about. That's an acquaintance, someone that we know of, but we don't really know. It's important to clarify the difference in a friend and an acquaintance because the two are very different. To have an acquaintance turn into a friend would be wonderful. But to have a friend become only an acquaintance would be a heartbreaking loss.
So how do we know who is a friend? How do we recognize them? How does a friend stand out from the throng of people that call themselves our friend, but yet really have no clue as to what a friend really is?
Friends aren't clones of each other. They disagree on things. They don't always see eye to eye on issues. They might have different religious beliefs. They might be years apart in age or they might be the same age. They might come from totally different backgrounds or lifestyles. So what binds them together in such a way that they become friends?
Someone who is a friend puts their friend first. They don't consider themselves when caring for their friend. They think of the welfare and well being of their friend above their own needs. A friend listens and they encourage their friend to talk if they want to talk, and they are just there when no words are said or needed. They give new meaning to caring, because they don't talk about caring for someone, they show it and practice it.
A friend doesn't remind their friend of their past or how many times they failed and messed up. A friend reminds their friend that they are special and that they are loved, as they are, even when the friend doesn't feel so loved or special. A friend doesn't judge their friend, but neither do they tell them a wrong is right or okay. And most of all, a friend often knows their friend as well or better than the friend knows themselves.
So how do we know who is a friend? How do we recognize them? How does a friend stand out from the throng of people that call themselves our friend, but yet really have no clue as to what a friend really is?
Friends aren't clones of each other. They disagree on things. They don't always see eye to eye on issues. They might have different religious beliefs. They might be years apart in age or they might be the same age. They might come from totally different backgrounds or lifestyles. So what binds them together in such a way that they become friends?
Someone who is a friend puts their friend first. They don't consider themselves when caring for their friend. They think of the welfare and well being of their friend above their own needs. A friend listens and they encourage their friend to talk if they want to talk, and they are just there when no words are said or needed. They give new meaning to caring, because they don't talk about caring for someone, they show it and practice it.
A friend doesn't remind their friend of their past or how many times they failed and messed up. A friend reminds their friend that they are special and that they are loved, as they are, even when the friend doesn't feel so loved or special. A friend doesn't judge their friend, but neither do they tell them a wrong is right or okay. And most of all, a friend often knows their friend as well or better than the friend knows themselves.
Ahad, 21 November 2010
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Assalammualaikum
ngeee~~`lamer gler da x tulis blog...refresh2...hahhahhaha....
pukul 3.07pm.....cuaca cerah...cantik jer...mcam perasaan ak sekarang....
aper perkara menarik harini.....
6.30am...bgun solat subuh...liat gler nak bgun..isnin...hahhahahhaha...keje x keje..keje x keje...tpi terpakse g keje gak..huhu..then smbung tdo blik(menarik ka??)
7.00am~g mandi..duk depan tv tgok cougar town..(pgi2 ag da tgok crita mengarut....Astgfirullah..hehhehhe...tpi ad pengajaran disebaliknyer...(cover))hahhahah
8.00am~oops...hairi da smpi maik kitorng...begitu gak ngan eida....huh lawa punch card ak miggu ni...awal jer sampi...nyeh
(kene letak setiap jam ker??????).............................foward!!!!!!!!
8.30am~lepas jer breakfast...ngadap pc ag...haih~~~..tpimenyemangatkan gak wat kijo tuh....teringat mak ak ckp"xd keje mengeluh..da ad keje mengeluh gak...kan bersyuku da ad kerja tu...kalu xnak kerja...bg mak kerja tu"hehhehe...mak ak ni hiperbola ckit...hahhahah....
uuuu...rindunyer kat mak ak....lamer da xblik...eh yerker...hahhahahh...
tiba2 ak teringat!!!
AK KENE BERDIET MIGGU NI!!!!!!!!argh...da mkn nasi gorng + ayam goreng(kongsi ngan eida~hehheheh)
uuuuu~da terlepas nak wat cner...da kenyang da pon
Patotnyer ak nak ikot g HQ harini...ad plak subcont dtg nak wat valuation....adeH~~~
xperla BERSENAM CKIT pas mkn tdi....hehhhehehehhehehe.....ad la ckit unsur diet tu.....hehhehehee
erk...claim MIllion Aim...hahhahhah..da 1/2 hour bru sedar....hehhehehhe
....
(selalu wat2 terlupa)...papai!!!!
ngeee~~`lamer gler da x tulis blog...refresh2...hahhahhaha....
pukul 3.07pm.....cuaca cerah...cantik jer...mcam perasaan ak sekarang....
aper perkara menarik harini.....
6.30am...bgun solat subuh...liat gler nak bgun..isnin...hahhahahhaha...keje x keje..keje x keje...tpi terpakse g keje gak..huhu..then smbung tdo blik(menarik ka??)
7.00am~g mandi..duk depan tv tgok cougar town..(pgi2 ag da tgok crita mengarut....Astgfirullah..hehhehhe...tpi ad pengajaran disebaliknyer...(cover))hahhahah
8.00am~oops...hairi da smpi maik kitorng...begitu gak ngan eida....huh lawa punch card ak miggu ni...awal jer sampi...nyeh
(kene letak setiap jam ker??????).............................foward!!!!!!!!
8.30am~lepas jer breakfast...ngadap pc ag...haih~~~..tpimenyemangatkan gak wat kijo tuh....teringat mak ak ckp"xd keje mengeluh..da ad keje mengeluh gak...kan bersyuku da ad kerja tu...kalu xnak kerja...bg mak kerja tu"hehhehe...mak ak ni hiperbola ckit...hahhahah....
uuuu...rindunyer kat mak ak....lamer da xblik...eh yerker...hahhahahh...
tiba2 ak teringat!!!
AK KENE BERDIET MIGGU NI!!!!!!!!argh...da mkn nasi gorng + ayam goreng(kongsi ngan eida~hehheheh)
uuuuu~da terlepas nak wat cner...da kenyang da pon
Patotnyer ak nak ikot g HQ harini...ad plak subcont dtg nak wat valuation....adeH~~~
xperla BERSENAM CKIT pas mkn tdi....hehhhehehehhehehe.....ad la ckit unsur diet tu.....hehhehehee
erk...claim MIllion Aim...hahhahhah..da 1/2 hour bru sedar....hehhehehhe
....
(selalu wat2 terlupa)...papai!!!!
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